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HEY HEARTUN~ Once i came to Second Life and discovered the Scat Lovers group I cried in https://scatlover.net/ relief. You see, I’m a 24 yr old govt assistant for a Fortune 500 company and my husband and that i stay the American Dream - however I secretly smear my own feces throughout me, or roll in it, as I masturbate.

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I’ve been doing it for years, since I used to be a woman. It began within the shower in my parents home. The house my husband and that i dwell in has wooden floors, leather furniture, linoleum, and other arduous surfaces that clear up effectively - because I've ‘christened’ each room in the house.

My husband doesn’t know, and I'm certain he wouldn’t perceive. So finding others who share my fetish for the primary time has lifted a lifetime of shame from my shoulders - even when solely in Second Life. I love my real life husband, however am on the lookout for a Second Life partner for mutual Scat love. Will this jeopardize my marriage? ~ SCAT LOVER

Dear SCAT: Will having a secret lover in Second Life jeopardize your marriage in real life? No, not necessarily. Unfortunately, your actual life marriage might already be doomed. Every marriage has some secrets and techniques, like how many lovers you’ve had prior to now or that factor your spouse does that secretly annoys you. These secrets and techniques differ from the one you are maintaining in that they are not issues that actually define who you're.

Your life-long love of ‘smearing’ scat sounds prefer it is a huge a part of your sexuality. It seems like something you need, and can apparently seek out a partner for. Telling your husband, and not telling him, are each fraught with hazard.

I love giving recommendation, but on this one I’m not going to attempt to inform you what to do. Staying within the closet (outhouse?) or laying it all out for him each convey too many unknowns and can probably have unexpected penalties. Holding on to your secret is safe, however you’re holding on to concern and disgrace while you accomplish that. Bravely revealing your kink to your husband is a a lot lighter emotional burden, but might end in dropping him altogether. And as somebody who went by means of one divorce I can let you know that no one gets through that unscathed - though there's peace on the other facet, generally.

If you take on a Second Life lover you'll be constructing a nest of little lies to hide your huge secret, and that burden only gets bigger. It may be one that solves your drawback, and there are folks in Second Life who keep SL in SL and RL in RL… however don’t suppose that journey is straightforward or easy. In case you discover a trusted buddy within the Scat Lovers group who is in a similar state of affairs, discuss with them about what they are doing and how it’s figuring out. Have conversations with several such people if you possibly can, but achieve this to assist yourself find what ‘feels right’ for you.

As with every kink, in my opinion, there isn't a shame being a scat lover. The way you behave in direction of others, nonetheless, has penalties that you will have to live with. I wish you the very best as you discover out what works for you. In time, please write once more and tell us.